2013-09-24 12:36 a.m.
I thought you'd like to read this heartfelt note I wrote to Dick. He is worth he was weight in gold, and I wanted him to know it. Needless to say writing it, and reading it now, brought me to tears- the deep love kind of tears I'd happily cry an ocean's worth! I miss him so much. He died 6 weeks after Mom did. It's been 3 years and I still feel like the earth has fallen away - and I am walking on a tightrope over a sink hole.
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Dick,
The first time we met I thought you were very cool. You were so loving, graceful and generous in relationship with Mom; she felt complete with you in her life. She blossomed falling in love with you, which made me very happy.
Mom was nervous in the days before THE DAY I was going to first meet you. She even told me about your hand so I wouldn't be shocked or embarrass you. So cute! It was as if she was the teenager and I was the parent. She didn't need to worry!
At my place you & I were alone on the deck- Curious, I asked "Wow, what happened?" Your story was brilliant & witty- we laughed, and raised a glass in celebration of meeting. You weren't embarrassed. Mom was delighted. Success!
That was ages ago. You've filled a place in my heart with life that had been vacant since the day Dad died. Thank You!! You are a step-dad to me, and know I love you very much. (((((HUG)))))
I thank my lucky stars.
Love,
Leslie